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Monday 19 January 2015
10 Tips For Making Friends
Hi guys, so today, im gonna tell you 10 tips for making friends. Since its the start of the new year, 2015. Everyone has to make new friends, meet new people and have changes in their life. So imma start with making friends. I know a lot people is the world is like me before, i was a shy timid person who doesn't have friends but of course a few. I didn't dare to talk to people and im so quiet. I regretted and wanted to change. Now im like a whole different person at school. Im making lots of friends and not so timid anymore. :) So lets just stop the talking about my life and get started. :)
1. "Hi & Bye": For me, i realized that this are really important words, if u just take the effort the say hi to someone, it really helps, don just stay quiet. At the 1st day of school, i had a lot trouble just trying to say hi to this person. I was like "sigh then hh.... then sigh then um hhh..." then i just kept doing that until i tell myself its ok its alright and bravely said out hi.
2. Take the first step: Once u are out there, someone has to make the first move. If the other person doesn't start off, then just go over and give a friendly hi. Don't be shy.
3. Forget about ur fear: I know a lot of people as well as myself, have a fear of talking infront of large groups of people & sometimes even dislike talking among groups of friends. What i say is forget about it, conquer it. There's nothing wrong about it at all. If u are scared that people might dislike u of ur looks, its ok, be brave. :)
4. Start small: You don't have to immediately make a whole bunch of friends and only talk to a few. You are losing ur relationship with them. So make make a few friends first. Bond & get closer to them and start making more friends.
5. Try to mix in: Don just make friends and just follow them around the whole day but not even getting close to them. Try to tell them what things u like, about urself & u might even find someone who can be ur next BFF!
6. Get to know ur friends: Just go out together to the mall, their houses, or anywhere u guys would like to go. And even have sleepovers, parties and much more. Know what that person likes or dislikes. About their hobbies, life.
7. Stay in touch: It doesn't matter if u can't meet up everyday or go out together. Its ok. Maybe text each other, call up each other. But make the effort to stay in touch.
8. Be there for your friends: Don make friends just bcos u don't wanna be the alone person. Make real, genuine friendship. When they need help, be there for them & not leave them alone.
9. Love ur friends: Im not talking about, "eeew u like that person, eew u like her, eew u like him". Nop. "Love" them as friends, <3
10: Be urself: The most important is to be urself. U must be comfortable around ur friends and they must be too. Don just show them ur fake pretend side.
So those are the 10 tips, i know there's a lot. But the important thing is, it depends on urself whether u wanna make the effort. :) Some of u may think its not true or its so fake. Nop. Don judge it.
1. "Hi & Bye": For me, i realized that this are really important words, if u just take the effort the say hi to someone, it really helps, don just stay quiet. At the 1st day of school, i had a lot trouble just trying to say hi to this person. I was like "sigh then hh.... then sigh then um hhh..." then i just kept doing that until i tell myself its ok its alright and bravely said out hi.
2. Take the first step: Once u are out there, someone has to make the first move. If the other person doesn't start off, then just go over and give a friendly hi. Don't be shy.
3. Forget about ur fear: I know a lot of people as well as myself, have a fear of talking infront of large groups of people & sometimes even dislike talking among groups of friends. What i say is forget about it, conquer it. There's nothing wrong about it at all. If u are scared that people might dislike u of ur looks, its ok, be brave. :)
4. Start small: You don't have to immediately make a whole bunch of friends and only talk to a few. You are losing ur relationship with them. So make make a few friends first. Bond & get closer to them and start making more friends.
6. Get to know ur friends: Just go out together to the mall, their houses, or anywhere u guys would like to go. And even have sleepovers, parties and much more. Know what that person likes or dislikes. About their hobbies, life.
7. Stay in touch: It doesn't matter if u can't meet up everyday or go out together. Its ok. Maybe text each other, call up each other. But make the effort to stay in touch.
8. Be there for your friends: Don make friends just bcos u don't wanna be the alone person. Make real, genuine friendship. When they need help, be there for them & not leave them alone.
9. Love ur friends: Im not talking about, "eeew u like that person, eew u like her, eew u like him". Nop. "Love" them as friends, <3
10: Be urself: The most important is to be urself. U must be comfortable around ur friends and they must be too. Don just show them ur fake pretend side.
So those are the 10 tips, i know there's a lot. But the important thing is, it depends on urself whether u wanna make the effort. :) Some of u may think its not true or its so fake. Nop. Don judge it.
Saturday 17 January 2015
8 Things to do when you're bored
Morning guys, rise and shine! Okay I trust all of you get bored when you're alone at home. And most of these things can only be done when you're alone...
1. Prepare your own dinner! And when I say 'prepare', doesn't mean I go take away KFC or 7-11 fast heat food! It means you have to start from raw materials. Of course, sashimi can be eaten raw, but if you want, try to fry the salmon. It tastes better actually. And make sure you eat it! no matter how bad it is in the end, you made it by yourself.
2. Collect all your (or your mom's) make-up boxes and hair accessories and make yourself look really nice! 'mommy don't let me use make-up' no longer works here. Do not do this too oftenly if you are still a kid, because it affects your skin, but if you try it like once in two months it shouldn't be a problem. Plus you can go search in your mom's wardrobe for a gown or if you have a real nice dress, just wear it. Put on those high heels and party to yourself! you can instagram it if you like!
3. Reading is always wonderful! This doesn't have to be done alone. You can choose to read your favorite novel over and over again, or go to the library to try out new books.
4. Hmmmm... failing on a diet plan again? Well, you don't have to eat less, because food is wonderful xD but you can always exercise to drop a few pounds xP so just search on Youtube those kind of workouts, or I suggest you some: (recommended) 500 jumping jacks, 30 seconds hopscotch, 50 sit ups, 20 push ups, 3 min squats, and some jogging. I always did those, though not the full number, at least I did all of them and perspires.
5. Learn a new song of your favourite artiste and sing it loudly on a karaoke version! It's great fun, trust me.
6. Music is always fascinating, not only singing, you can play an instrument. Me now piano grade 7 and I can always download some scores and play it to my own enjoyment.
7. Go out with a friend, to the nature. Try not to go to the shopping center or cinema like you always do, go to a place where it is all trees, flowers, and other living things. It makes you relaxed and have more bonding time with you friend!
8. Laughter is the best medicine for boredom and depression. Read jokes, tell them to yourself, and laugh. Or call a friend and keep telling ridiculous things! Have fun!
1. Prepare your own dinner! And when I say 'prepare', doesn't mean I go take away KFC or 7-11 fast heat food! It means you have to start from raw materials. Of course, sashimi can be eaten raw, but if you want, try to fry the salmon. It tastes better actually. And make sure you eat it! no matter how bad it is in the end, you made it by yourself.
2. Collect all your (or your mom's) make-up boxes and hair accessories and make yourself look really nice! 'mommy don't let me use make-up' no longer works here. Do not do this too oftenly if you are still a kid, because it affects your skin, but if you try it like once in two months it shouldn't be a problem. Plus you can go search in your mom's wardrobe for a gown or if you have a real nice dress, just wear it. Put on those high heels and party to yourself! you can instagram it if you like!
3. Reading is always wonderful! This doesn't have to be done alone. You can choose to read your favorite novel over and over again, or go to the library to try out new books.
4. Hmmmm... failing on a diet plan again? Well, you don't have to eat less, because food is wonderful xD but you can always exercise to drop a few pounds xP so just search on Youtube those kind of workouts, or I suggest you some: (recommended) 500 jumping jacks, 30 seconds hopscotch, 50 sit ups, 20 push ups, 3 min squats, and some jogging. I always did those, though not the full number, at least I did all of them and perspires.
5. Learn a new song of your favourite artiste and sing it loudly on a karaoke version! It's great fun, trust me.
6. Music is always fascinating, not only singing, you can play an instrument. Me now piano grade 7 and I can always download some scores and play it to my own enjoyment.
7. Go out with a friend, to the nature. Try not to go to the shopping center or cinema like you always do, go to a place where it is all trees, flowers, and other living things. It makes you relaxed and have more bonding time with you friend!
8. Laughter is the best medicine for boredom and depression. Read jokes, tell them to yourself, and laugh. Or call a friend and keep telling ridiculous things! Have fun!
Secret Crushes//Crushes Secrets
Um.. so, hi, I'm gonna let out something I concealed for a very long time...
During my primary 5, I was kind of attracted by a guy. In my eyes, he was perfect, and I waited everyday after school, just to see him leave without him realizing I was there. I was obsessed by this, and I knew I was in big big trouble. First of all, I did not want to affect my studies(luckily it did not) secondly, I knew I was too young for this. But the problem was, I just cannot help it. Worst of it all was he seemed to hate me.
I stayed in school to wait for him when I did not have to stay. I wrote weird love letters but did not dare give any of them to him. I was out of control, I was crazy, I lost friends, wasted time, and I was really guility to think about this kind of 'love story' thing as a kid back then. But did I have any other choices? Maybe I did. But I couldn't. When he said I was ugly, thought I knew perfectly I wasn't, I felt like getting hit by a gigantic stone and couldn't ever stand up anymore. I did not care about anything else except what he said.
In primary 6, when I became a more popular person, I managed to make friends with him but he never replied my messages. Just a friend? At that time I was really satisfied with just being friends, but I couldn't help stomping and crying when I see him with another girl, or even hear rumors of him and another girl.
I did not know what he thought of me. But I knew that he has none of 'that' feeling towards me...
Right now it has lasted for 2 years and I still dream of getting together with him even I know I should not! What, what must I do? Being 13 years old does not have the priority to fall in love! Please... He and me has gotten into different schools and what if missing him affect my studies? Oh my god, am I insane?
During my primary 5, I was kind of attracted by a guy. In my eyes, he was perfect, and I waited everyday after school, just to see him leave without him realizing I was there. I was obsessed by this, and I knew I was in big big trouble. First of all, I did not want to affect my studies(luckily it did not) secondly, I knew I was too young for this. But the problem was, I just cannot help it. Worst of it all was he seemed to hate me.
I stayed in school to wait for him when I did not have to stay. I wrote weird love letters but did not dare give any of them to him. I was out of control, I was crazy, I lost friends, wasted time, and I was really guility to think about this kind of 'love story' thing as a kid back then. But did I have any other choices? Maybe I did. But I couldn't. When he said I was ugly, thought I knew perfectly I wasn't, I felt like getting hit by a gigantic stone and couldn't ever stand up anymore. I did not care about anything else except what he said.
In primary 6, when I became a more popular person, I managed to make friends with him but he never replied my messages. Just a friend? At that time I was really satisfied with just being friends, but I couldn't help stomping and crying when I see him with another girl, or even hear rumors of him and another girl.
I did not know what he thought of me. But I knew that he has none of 'that' feeling towards me...
Right now it has lasted for 2 years and I still dream of getting together with him even I know I should not! What, what must I do? Being 13 years old does not have the priority to fall in love! Please... He and me has gotten into different schools and what if missing him affect my studies? Oh my god, am I insane?
Problem resolved -- the end
In my last year of primary school, I changed and became positive and friendly. People started to like me and friend me. So it was a wonderful ending...but still, the most horrible feeling is still loneliness. It was hard to me to say goodbye to anyone... Even if I meet the person again next day. Bidding my mom goodnight meant for me to stop talking and I dreaded that moment... But still, we have to. The best thing we can do, is to let life do whatever it wants, and try not to take things too heavily. After all, when you get into enough trouble, trouble would stop for you.
Worst feeling in the world
Long, long ago, I believed the most terrible thing in the world was death. Nothing was I dreading about except death, and I thought everything was just... fate. I thought that fate was kind because I used to get everything I wanted.
Okay this is a bit off subject, but that was basically me before I attended school.
I will never lie to you guys because I love you all. Best things that happens to blogs are viewers. As many as possible, that's it. So I am gonna tell you guys a fact about me. Looking at my profile, and my status, people will think that I am positive, and have many friends... Then you made a mistake. Since primary school, I was regarded as 'weird' and 'ugly' and even 'retarded'. I used to cry every night, when no one knew I was. When they were all asleep, I was not. I tried to change, but I just, just can't. It was a ridiculous idea to become someone else I don't know. In fact, the person that I never understood fully was myself, because in a whole life, some people just cannot find themselves. I thought that I was never someone fit inside people. Yes that was me. Okay to be frank, my life wasn't long because I am only 13 this year and that was not long. Yes the worst feeling in the world (I'm sure you get it now) is called loneliness. I hate being alone. Some people likes it and I mean no offence, because it's my own opinion.
When I was in primary four, I was called 'no.1 enemy detected' every time I walk near someone. People made my things drop on the floor and pretend that I have virus and avoid me even if it's crowded. I did not have much of a thought, I just hated them.
The following year, their verbal and physical attacks stopped because we got older and understood things more and began to take things in a more matured way. But I could still tell they hated me. Ignoring my friend requests on Facebook, and having less than 100 followers despite having an Instagram for more than a year. I let them carry on, feeling that whether they show it or not, they still hate me. I rather take it when they hate me in open than hurting me 'inside' if you get me. Once on a field trip, the girl who was assigned to sit with me was regarded 'most unluckiness' and every time a teacher asks for group projects or pair works, I was always the most awkward one who sits there with nobody and fighting back tears...
Okay this is a bit off subject, but that was basically me before I attended school.
I will never lie to you guys because I love you all. Best things that happens to blogs are viewers. As many as possible, that's it. So I am gonna tell you guys a fact about me. Looking at my profile, and my status, people will think that I am positive, and have many friends... Then you made a mistake. Since primary school, I was regarded as 'weird' and 'ugly' and even 'retarded'. I used to cry every night, when no one knew I was. When they were all asleep, I was not. I tried to change, but I just, just can't. It was a ridiculous idea to become someone else I don't know. In fact, the person that I never understood fully was myself, because in a whole life, some people just cannot find themselves. I thought that I was never someone fit inside people. Yes that was me. Okay to be frank, my life wasn't long because I am only 13 this year and that was not long. Yes the worst feeling in the world (I'm sure you get it now) is called loneliness. I hate being alone. Some people likes it and I mean no offence, because it's my own opinion.
When I was in primary four, I was called 'no.1 enemy detected' every time I walk near someone. People made my things drop on the floor and pretend that I have virus and avoid me even if it's crowded. I did not have much of a thought, I just hated them.
The following year, their verbal and physical attacks stopped because we got older and understood things more and began to take things in a more matured way. But I could still tell they hated me. Ignoring my friend requests on Facebook, and having less than 100 followers despite having an Instagram for more than a year. I let them carry on, feeling that whether they show it or not, they still hate me. I rather take it when they hate me in open than hurting me 'inside' if you get me. Once on a field trip, the girl who was assigned to sit with me was regarded 'most unluckiness' and every time a teacher asks for group projects or pair works, I was always the most awkward one who sits there with nobody and fighting back tears...
Friday 16 January 2015
A stop
Um so hi guys, after realising that I honestly have no idea how to continue writing my 'story', im gonna stop. I will continue blogging, but I will stop writing stories. I have no idea what to write... seriously. And perhaps you're gonna like my next post... perhaps not. xD continue to love me! thankssssss.
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