10 Tips For Making Friends

Hi guys, so today, im gonna tell you 10 tips for making friends. Since its the start of the new year, 2015. Everyone has to make new friends, meet new people and have changes in their life. So imma start with making friends. I know a lot people is the world is like me before, i was a shy timid person who doesn't have friends but of course a few. I didn't dare to talk to people and im so quiet. I regretted and wanted to change. Now im like a whole different person at school. Im making lots of friends and not so timid anymore. :) So lets just stop the talking about my life and get started. :)

1. "Hi & Bye": For me, i realized that this are really important words, if u just take the effort the say hi to someone, it really helps, don just stay quiet. At the 1st day of school, i had a lot trouble just trying to say hi to this person. I was like "sigh then hh.... then sigh then um hhh..." then i just kept doing that until i tell myself its ok its alright and bravely said out hi.

2. Take the first step: Once u are out there, someone has to make the first move. If the other person doesn't start off, then just go over and give a friendly hi. Don't be shy.


3. Forget about ur fear: I know a lot of people as well as myself, have a fear of talking infront of large groups of people & sometimes even dislike talking among groups of friends. What i say is forget about it, conquer it. There's nothing wrong about it at all. If u are scared that people might dislike u of ur looks, its ok, be brave. :)

4. Start small: You don't have to immediately make a whole bunch of friends and only talk to a few. You are losing ur relationship with them. So make make a few friends first. Bond & get closer to them and start making more friends.

5. Try to mix in: Don just make friends and just follow them around the whole day but not even getting close to them. Try to tell them what things u like, about urself & u might even find someone who can be ur next BFF!

6. Get to know ur friends: Just go out together to the mall, their houses, or anywhere u guys would like to go. And even have sleepovers, parties and much more. Know what that person likes or dislikes. About their hobbies, life.

7. Stay in touch: It doesn't matter if u can't meet up everyday or go out together. Its ok. Maybe text each other, call up each other. But make the effort to stay in touch.

8. Be there for your friends: Don make friends just bcos u don't wanna be the alone person. Make real, genuine friendship. When they need help, be there for them & not leave them alone. 

9. Love ur friends: Im not talking about, "eeew u like that person, eew u like her, eew u like him". Nop. "Love" them as friends, <3

10: Be urself: The most important is to be urself. U must be comfortable around ur friends and they must be too. Don just show them ur fake pretend side.

So those are the 10 tips, i know there's a lot. But the important thing is, it depends on urself whether u wanna make the effort. :) Some of u may think its not true or its so fake. Nop. Don judge it.